TOOLS OF ATTRACTION Part 2 (Things that arouse interest & pull people towards you )

By Pastor Richard Minet TOOLS OF ATTRACTION (Part 2) (Things that arouse interest & pull people towards you ) Contents: Scope of attraction. Different people with different attractions. Tools that must never be introduce in winning attraction. Major tool to win love or gain attraction. SOS 8:7 Many waters cannot quench love, neither can floods drown it. If a man offered for love all the wealth of his house, he would be utterly despised. Whenever a word like attraction is mentioned, what readily comes to mind is facial appeal, physical beauty, hot looks, great physic, nice makeup, good fashion, etc. On the contrary, to think like this is to REDUCE the scope of attraction, this is because attraction transcends mere physical looks. To ATTRACT is TO AROUSE INTEREST, it is TO PULL TOWARD by means of some power WITHOUT TOUCHING. People generally can be and are attracted to different things. While some are attracted to beauty, others are attracted to fame, character, boldness and many others to other values of life. What attracts one person may not be an attraction to another. There are people who are attracted to facial beauty while there are those who care less about it and who instead can only be attracted to HARD-WORK, intelligence, etc, then there are those who will give anything to only marry a person with a great PRAYER LIFE. As ridiculous as this may sound, there are people who don't or will not for any reason marry an attractive or facially beautiful woman. Regardless however of what anyone's attraction may be, everybody needs attraction for one favour or the other. While the unmarried needs it to get attention or arouse interest, those married need it to enjoy the attention of their spouses as well as maintain what they already have, and then those in business need it to attract new clients as well as enjoy continuous patronage of the old. As important as this tool called attraction may be, not understanding it and how to use it can turn a person into an object of ridicule or cause untold regrettable loses. This is because to attract, there are things a person can do and things that must never be conceived or attempted. Attraction has its tools. To gain attraction, one of the tools a person must never use is DESPERATION. Attraction forbids PRESSURE, it is not a tool of attraction, it instead works against it. Don't come strong at people, attraction is twofold, it's a two way magnetic traffic. Remember we said it is TO PULL TOWARD by means of some power WITHOUT TOUCHING. So stop trying to rob yourself in people's face, respect their space. You only repel love when you FORCE yourself on people, and this can make them weary, angry or brush you aside. Prov 25:17 says; Withdraw thy foot from thy neighbour's house; lest he be weary of thee, and so hate thee. Another tool that must never be introduced in winning attraction is; BEGGING SOMEBODY TO LOVE YOU. It will shock you to know that there are people who beg to be loved. They say things like; "Please just give me a chance, and if I don't meet your expectation, you can walk away, but please give me a try". This is madness. Don't ever BEG TO BE LOVED, those who do this, will forever be at the mercy of their love slave masters and must be ready to spend the rest of the existence of that relationship begging again and again. Whenever issues arise, they keep reminding you of how they didn't want this but how you pleaded again and again. Eventually, you may be left with no choice but to subscribe to either cajoling (using money, gifts, etc) or coercing (using force, lies, pretence, etc) to maintain your lot, and sadly, these will still not work because you CANNOT BUY LOVE, it can only be found, aroused, stirred or awakened. SOS. 3:5 I charge you, O ye daughters of Jerusalem, by the roes, and by the hinds of the field, that ye stir not up, nor awake my love, till he please. One major tool to win love or gain attraction is the tool of VALUE: The price you will be willing to pay to pursue or have anything is determined by the value it carries and above all, that it holds for you. People will only relate or be attracted to you on the basis of the value you place first on yourself and more importantly that you hold for them. It has nothing to do with whether they like you or not, they may not like you but because of the value you carry, they'll not be able to ignore you. Friend, if you are loaded, you'll be needed. Gen. 29:20 And Jacob served seven years for Rachel; and they seemed unto him but a few days, for the love he had to her. Although value attracts, the kind of value you carry however, determines the kind or class of people that you attract. For instance, although a whore and a home girl, as far as their gender is concerned, are both ladies with same body features, but the price a man will be willing to pay to have the home girl will definitely not be the same with the harlot. Same goes with food, the amount for the rice you buy in an eatery and that from MAMA PUT (roadside food vendor) cannot be the same, because though they are both the same rice, but have different worth due to the different values given them. For this reason you must have a HEALTHY SELF ESTEEM. Prov 23:7 says; For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he... Your estimations of yourself will not only determine your outlook to life, it will also go a long way in determining the people that are drawn to you. Again, the persons or people that are attracted to you and that you associate with, will also determine the value people accord you. Do you know a presidents driver or a governors cook, can definitely not be accorded the same value like every other ordinary driver and cook? Working for and with such people makes a life much more attractive. Raise your value to change your company this year. Low level associations will go a long way to determine your worth this year. Show me your friends and I'll tell you how much you are worth and what you can attract this year. POINTS OF MEDITATION 1. On a scale of 1 to 10, how sincerely will your spouse rate your value in his or her life? 2. Write 7 things that you can do this year to add value to improve your attraction. @SMS With PRM  #Marriage-Matics TOOLS OF ATTRACTION   Part 1  TOOLS OF ATTRACTION   Part 3 TOOLS OF ATTRACTION   Part 4  Am sure you are glad after reading this, don't keep this to yourself, kindly share with others. Endeavor to drop your comments and questions.