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| By Pastor Richard Minet |
TOOLS OF ATTRACTION (Part 3)
(How do you attract your soulmate?)
Overview:
- Wise interpretation of attraction.
- Genuine love.
- crazy tools of attraction.
- Wrong perception of Marriage.
- Developing goals in life.
Eccl. 8:1
Who is as the wise man? and who knoweth the interpretation of a thing? a man's wisdom maketh his face to shine, and the boldness of his face shall be changed.
Inability to properly or wisely give interpretation to matters of life like attraction we discovered has misled many into applying the wrong tools in the hope of getting attention, winning affection or gaining attraction.
In order to attract love or affection, it is amazing what some people do just to achieve this. Ordinary people suddenly turn into fine actors, they put up acts, change their accent, posture, presentations, gesticulations, borrow clothes, cars, phones, etc, all for just one purpose, to gain attraction. You've not seen the best actors until matters of love and marriage surfaces. In order to attract, some people can pretend to do or be what they are not.
Then there are those who go as far as changing their physical looks, they alter parts of their body just to win love or be attractive to a person. This is an error, and pure inability to interpret attraction correctly. Anyone that you have to alter who you are in other to win their affection or get their attention is not worthy of you. Don't borrow clothes, hair or car so as to be attractive, just be yourself.
Love is not genuine if you have to put in so much effort like altering yourself just to win the other person. Why must you forcefully and painfully change your shape or parts of your body like your nose or even enlarge sizes of sensitive parts of your body just to please or meet the carnal expectations of those you wish to attract. What you should work at changing is your outlook which is a product of your content. This is what you should change, the boldness of your face, not your body parts.
Avoid people that complain too much about your natural person, If they don't like the way you LAUGH, WALK, TALK, etc, it's very possible you are not made to fit in with them. That your nose, set of teeth and the way you smile that that person despises, may very well be what your real love is praying for. The joy of true relationship is that you are true to yourself.
Another terrible tool people with deluded minds employ to gain attraction is CHARMS. This is the art of using anything and everything possible, bleaching creams, drugs, stimulants, steroids, all kinds of unhealthy attachments, including showing off sensitive or nude body parts to get attention or gain attraction.
Those who use this tool unknowingly not only make themselves WHOREMONGERS but also SUBSCRIBE to DEMONIC influences. Hence, the only person such fellows can attract are WHOREMONGERS like themselves and sadly, they are not guaranteed a future because whoremongers are forever moved by private body parts. If it was the sight of a fine or big boobs that attracted a whoremonger, the day he sees any finer or bigger one, it doesn't matter whether it's that of his spouses sister, mother, etc, be sure he'll go for it. And why? Because that was what attracted him to you, that's why he is a whoremonger, and the primary occupation of whoremonging is the traffic, buying and selling of hot bodies (whores).
This is one major reason our sisters must not be wearing clothes that reveal sensitive parts of their bodies in the name of fashion or to make themselves attractive for men. Stop flaunting your body in the name of wearing bum shots, mini skirts, see through clothes, etc, yes they make you attractive but to who? Trust me, this senseless attraction tool is fast turning our men into whoremongers and our ladies into purposeless bum shaking sex slaves.
Our generation has fallen for this crazy attraction tool. Very few today will enjoy or approve a movie or music video that does not display intense and passionate bum shaking ladies. This is nothing but a satanic carefully purported cover up and exchange of the real attraction tool which is purpose.
One of the strongest forces of attraction on earth is Purpose. Purpose releases glow on the face, it is passion and most times very attractive. Eccl. 8:1 (ESV) says; A man's wisdom makes his face shine, and the hardness of his face is changed. What this means is that the greatest face enhancer or cure for uglyness.
Most women today are wonderers just looking for who will bail them out of their fathers house in the name of marriage. It's so sad to see the answer many ladies give today when asked what their dreams in life are, for many its NOTHING! So Sad. The only dream some women bring into marriage is just to give birth, and after that, to rear the children, and then much later, take care of their children's children. Oh the dreams and joys of omugwo.
You must have or develop a goal in life. Purposeful women are always more attractive. Marriage will become boring without Labour (dreams), Eccl. 4:9 says; "They have a good reward for their LABOUR" Please find a life. A single lady is likely to meet a man faster while working.
Please learn a trade or some vocation. If you don't, PURPOSELESSNESS will hijack your destiny. When a lady does not find something purposeful to do, if she has nothing left to do as a job, other than paint her face, nail and make her hair, this world will soon turn her into a bum-shaking star.
POINT OF MEDITATION
1. Can you identify things about you that you are trying to change but shouldn't, just to win someone's attention or attraction?
2. Rather than focus on others when considering our attractiveness, what should be our main focus? What ideally makes you rightly attractive to the right persons?
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Check out my previous post on the above subject,
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