WITHOUT NATURAL AFFECTION_(PART 2)-THE USE OF SEX TOYS_SMS-MARRIAGE-MATICS

By Pastor Richard Minet

WITHOUT NATURAL AFFECTION (PART 2)

(THE USE OF SEX TOYS)

Contents:

• Investigation shows that some vendors sell sex toys worth millions of naira every month.
• The growing popularity of these sex robots raises many ethical issues.
• How can anyone speak of forming a "bond" with their lifeless dolls.
• Without Natural Affection.
• Pursuit of sexual passion is very damaging to the soul.

Rom. 1:24, 28, 31.
Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves: And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; Without understanding, covenant breakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:

In the midst of the biting economic crisis, forcing many Nigerians to go as far as committing
suicide, a sub-sector of the Nigerian economy has been reported by Saturday's PUNCH to be booming with smiles to the bank, courtesy of people lacking sexual fulfillment, married and singles alike. Their investigation shows that some vendors sell sex toys worth millions of naira every month.

Sex robots are not only here to stay, but are becoming big business and increasingly sophisticated. Today, there are dolls that respond to touch, and others made with a promise to offer emotional connection. Those buying can either go for a customised one or select from a range of ready-made personalities, such as dolls that are kind, shy, witty, daring or naive. There are a variety of porn-inspired silicone dolls, some with freckles, different eye colours, piercings and even some with manicured nails, the list is endless.

The growing popularity of these sex robots raises many ethical issues, but it also forces us to ask questions about the very nature of sex. What exactly is sex for? Is it merely the acquisition of pleasure or a mechanism for orgasm, or is it something one experiences with another person? While it's true that sex does not necessarily involve intimacy or meaningful connection, and is certainly not always mutually beneficial, mutuality remains it's key factor.

God created sex exclusively to be enjoyed by two married humans.

1 Cor. 7:2-3.
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.

Looking at this, how can anyone speak of forming a "bond" with their lifeless dolls. A man claimed; "I am starting to forge a real relationship with my girls", while another argued, "It may be just a sex toy to some, but my doll is way more than a mere sex doll to me."

There are men and women who, despite being married, who prefer sex with their dolls to their living partners, who unlike these dolls, they claim are complex to manage with their own interests, feelings and lives. Dolls, on the other hand, have no particular expectation, they have no needs to be met and no free will to be exercised. You ALWAYS have their full attention,". Someone said It's just nice to know that there is someone waiting on me without any demands... She can't talk but at least she looks good sitting there watching TV, something his wife "would only do for a few minutes, then find things to be upset about."

But could anything exactly be wrong with this trend? Yes, several things. First is the danger that priority is being given to personal pleasure, as harmless as it may seem, when people pursue pleasure, when sensual gratification becomes our drive, we unconsciously become morally reprehensive, VILE, despicable in affection; Rom. 1:31, SAYS we become; *... 

WITHOUT NATURAL AFFECTION...,* that is to say, things created by God for our good, no longer holds attraction for us, things like sex that is designed to satisfy a need between a married couples *"Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does" I Cor. 7:3-4, are given over to toys and robots, these now come to replace our duty of satisfying our partners, thereby creating a hole in the hedge of the unity in marriage. Again, scripture says we become; "... *Without understanding,* with our affection diverted, 

We are now *WITHOUT NATURAL AFFECTION*and when this happens we become; implacable that is, nothing natural can any longer assuage, appease or pacify our deadly hunger and lust, and what follows, we become; *'vain in our imaginations, and this causes our foolish hearts to become darkened". (Rom. 1:21) Professing to be wise, we became fools,* (22) *And then we change the glory of the uncorruptible God into images* (toys, dolls, machines. (23) Now through *the lusts of our own hearts, we DISHONOR OUR OWN BODIES between ourselves, by changing the NATURAL USE into that which is AGAINST NATURE,* (25-26) If we don't stop now, a time will come when humans will be *LEAVING THE NATURAL USE OF THE WOMAN*and vice versa, this is Satan's plot, that we *"BURN IN OUR LIST*(27) And through our *REPROBATE MIND, to do THOSE THINGS WHICH ARE NOT CONVENIENT;* (30)

Friends, if we allow self gratification, our affection tends to get totally distracted from matters of righteousness and this is against God's plan for us. *"For this is the will of God, even your sanctification: that you should abstain from sexual immorality; that each of you should know how to POSSESS HIS OWN VESSEL in sanctification and honor, not in PASSION OF LUST, like the Gentiles who do not know God" 1Thess. 4:3-5.

Pursuit of sexual passion is very damaging to the soul. A single person in need of a sexual toy for stimulation is nothing short of pursuit of pure passion. Aside from it being a sin, there is a danger that one who becomes dependent on these tools in order to enjoy sex may never know the joys of true sex in marriage, same for the married couple.

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REFLECTIONS:
1. Do you consider the use of sex toys among married couples wrong or dangerous?
2. If you do, please state 4 reasons behind your reasons.

Kindly drop your comments below.

WITHOUT NATURAL AFFECTION_(THE USE OF SEX TOYS)_SMS-MARRIAGE-MATICS

By Pastor Richard Minet

WITHOUT NATURAL AFFECTION
(THE USE OF SEX TOYS)

Contents:

• Sex Toys and machines fast replacing the use of the natural sex gratification.
• Devil's targeting the marriage institution.
• Satan trying to CORRUPT THE SEED.
• Affection and attention given to toys and phones are pathetic, straining and damaging several relationships.

Rom. 1:21, 24, 26-28.
Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened. Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to DISHONOR THEIR OWN BODIES between themselves: For this cause God gave them up unto VILE AFFECTIONS: for even their women did CHANGE THE NATURAL USE into that which is AGAINST NATURE: And likewise also the men, LEAVING THE NATURAL USE OF THE WOMAN, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly..., without understanding, covenant breakers, WITHOUT NATURAL AFFECTION, implacable, unmerciful:

The rate at which the world is becoming more and more attached and used to unnatural uses, is very alarming and worrisome. Several things we see are no more real. From material affection, to human body parts, to body uses, even to body and soul gratification, nothing seems natural or real any more.

The rate at which toys and machines are fast replacing the use of the natural, especially in sex gratification among even the married is even more pathetic. But what exactly is the rational behind all of these?

First, is the fact that the devil's target is the marriage institution, Satan hates family, because it is the bedrock of any sane society. His attack on the family, dates back to our first parent, when God told the devil about the seed of the woman coming to bruise his head, from that point, Satan declared war against the family (marriage) institution, because this is the only organ through which the seed can be produced.

A careful look at scriptures, shows a major master plan of Satan in the actualization of this quest; to CORRUPT THE SEED, Satan knows once anything is corrupted, it loses its potent and purpose. So in Genesis 6:4, Satan made his first move, he sent angels in the form of men, and why? to copulate with humans thereby giving birth to children who wouldn't be pure (REAL, NATURAL) breeds but crossed. 

In those days, and for some time after, giant Nephilites lived on the earth, for whenever the sons of God had intercourse with women, they gave birth to children (giants) who became the heroes and famous warriors of ancient times.

Want to know what's going on here? CORRUPTION, a plot to cross breed all humans and thereby destroy the coming seed. Hence, the reason the angels took as many women as they desired, Gen. 6:2, "The sons of God saw the daughters of men that they were fair; and they TOOK THEM WIVES OF ALL WHICH THEY CHOSE*. One angel taking as many as possible was to quickly accomplish their task, which they actually almost did; *"And God looked upon the earth, and, behold, it was corrupt; FOR ALL FLESH HAD CORRUPTED his way upon the earth. Gen. 6:12


The corruption here is not just of doing evil but also of human nature, Satan was about done eradicating real breeds, reason also God spared none of them.

Not long after, Satan revisited this mandate, this time, through the use of sex, not normal sex, but humans burning after their kind.

Gen  19:4-5
But before they lay down, the men of the city, even the men of Sodom, compassed the house round, both OLD AND YOUNG, ALL THE PEOPLE FROM EVERY QUARTER: And they called unto Lot, and said unto him, Where are the men which came in to thee this night? bring them out unto us, that WE MAY KNOW (Have sexual intercourse with) them.*
Regardless of the plea of Lot to excuse this men, even offering to give his daughter they refused, demanding only to sleep with their kind, Satan again causing men to pursue unnatural uses.

Whenever men begin to leave natural uses for whatever reasons, aside the desire for personal pleasure,  Satan is after one thing to destroy all that is real. Marriages are collapsing, families are falling apart, relationships are being daily strained because people are deriving pleasure from toys, dolls, gadgets, machines, etc, rather than from fellow humans.

The kind of affection and attention we give to toys and phones today is not only pathetic but straining and damaging several relationships, if we gave that to our spouses, it will make a lot of difference. Today, most ladies would rather talk to a doll, while husbands have sex with toys, rather than with their spouses. Satan is gradually diverting our attention to carnal gratification. We would rather spend time transforming and recreating ourselves into terrible images, like cats, dogs, tigers, etc, giving ourselves horns, hairs, and what have you, with snapshots, rather than allow real life transforming changes. This is demonic and a clear instinct of a liking for unnatural uses as well as abuse of self via phone snapshots. 

Please stop this Satanic game. Can't you see how Satan is robbing you of everything that is true and natural? Can you imagine the amount of money and attention they put into such things, and now they have graduated into performing all kinds of surgery, hip, stomach, nose, face, etc, just to change their looks and those who can't afford this expense, go for bleaching creams to change their skin color or buy different artificial body parts that they now wear, like hips, bust, buttocks, etc, these are nothing but deviations from the natural. 

Today most men enjoy sex better with dolls while the women, with toys. Something must be terribly wrong with us. Can't you see Satan at work again? How can anyone claim to be focused on what is real and be so passionate about such things. You can't be building the spiritual and be so focused on the ephemeral, you will not only be giving yourself to VILE AFFECTIONS but be DISHONORING YOUR BODY. Note this, the more artificial you put on, the more of your fleshly desires you will be gratifying.

REFLECTIONS:*
1. Name 4 things that can be considered as unnatural uses.
2. What makes relating with dolls unseemly or the use of toys for sex lustful and wrong?

Kindly drop your answers below.. Thank you and God bless you

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