THE USE OF PORNOGRAPHY_(DANGERS OF PORNOGRAPHY)_SMS-MARRIAGE-MATICS

THE USE OF PORNOGRAPHY

First is the use of pornography or blue film (mild or unmild) for sex lessons.. Apart from the fact that it's wrong to watch other people having sex, the truth is, they are very harmful to d soul! The Greeks have four words to describe what we call love, i.e. Phileo, Storge, Eros and Agape.

                                  EROS

Eros - which is romantic love, is a love felt particularly within the body (trembling excitement, ecstasy or sensual elation caused by sex appetites), coloured and sustained by deep urges.

Authorities have succeeded in distinguishing Eros from natural sexual urges and lusts. Eros is a state of the heart that is solely and intimately related to sex. Note that sex can exist, and in fact does often exist, without Eros heightening or intensifying it. Once Eros steps in, it turns what is natural and beautiful to an exulted, animalistic and barbaric love.

Simply defined, Eros is erotic lust carried out deep within the soul of its prey as it is consumed, and thereby infuses mental sexual urges that is sooner or later elevated to its highest (barbaric) form in the soul of the unsuspecting victim. Once sighted or savoured, (pornography), the image settles and remains in the subconscious of the recipient, lurking, waiting to be played out or to take its victim hostage, causing the heart to long (lust) for or explore that which is stored and burning in the soul at some later date.

This is why people who watch blue films hardly derive sexual fulfilment or are at best driven beyond sex limits in the name of sex exploration and consequently many deviate into what scripture terms as reprobate or perversion. Once here, nothing normal gratifies the victim, hence drugs, infidelity, sex with multiple partners, animals, etc. once here, the demon in the pornographic movie that entered its subscribers unsuspectingly begins to drive them for more and more and more, you never know satisfaction unless it is casted out. But it all begins with accommodating NUDE PICTURES.

Rom. 1:24-30

Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves: Who changed the truth of God into a lie..., For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was meet. And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a REPROBATE mind, to do those things which are not CONVENIENT; being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness..., and inventors of evil things.

And this leads us to the second and third (sexual) perversion and (language) perversion.

Perversion is simply carrying what is right beyond its bound. Please note that sucking of either the male or female genital popularly called Oral Sex is sexual perversion and consequently a sin. 

As for different styles or positions as far as sex among a married couple is concerned, whatever style adopted by these is not a sin AS LONG AS IT IS CONVENIENT to both parties, by this I mean, as long as it does not wound, harm, crush or hurt the other party. Tying a woman with a rope, beating and inflicting wounds on her as foreplay or getting yourselves high via blue film, oral sex (genital sucking) or on drugs, etc, to make sex gratifying are nothing but perversion and a sin.

As far as the genitals are concerned, they can meet each other from any and at any point, but to lower the head down to the genital is not only depravity but a deviation from the normal and from all that is considered moral. Please if you are doing it, stop it because it is a sin! Rom. 1:24-30.

The third perversion is language perversion; account to

Eph. 4:29

Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth...,

There are languages that we as God's children are not permitted to use, we are forbidden from using d languages of the world considered as fowl, such as calling sensitive parts of the genitals in their raw form, using fowl languages such as; F_CK YOU, A_S, MOTHER F_CKER, PU_SY, etc,

Eph. 5:4 says

Neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not CONVENIENT:...

Scripture is telling us that there are certain jokes that are not acceptable by God;

Jokes that claims that people have finished the blood of Jesus and now it's the blood of God that we are using is nothing but BLASPHEMY, sadly now Christians now go about chanting “BLOOD OF GOD!” Does God have blood; is he no more a Spirit? God have mercy on us.

Do u know; slogans like; 'As in', 'U know', 'It's like', 'And everything', etc  is carnal? Analyse them and see for yourself.

1. So I later went to the market and bought rice and soap and everything and came back. That’s a lie, because you didn’t and couldn't have bought everything in the market. So stop saying what u didn't do. Remember, All liars shall go to Hell.

2. This morning  it’s like when I woke up, I put on the TV and it’s like I entered the shower; hello, you either woke up or you did not and you either entered d shower or you did not and if you did, then it’s no more like you did but that you actually did. Why are we allowing the world to influence our language instead of the other way.

Again we must watch out for FOOLISH TALKING, we are warned against this. Carnal languages like;

'I'm a SLAY MAMA/QUEEN'

'I'm a RED DEVIL'

'I'm SEXY'

'I'm CRAZY', etc  

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They must be stopped; they are from hell, don't be fooled; No child of God is a slayer, No devil, whether Red or Blue, will see God, stop saying what u are not. The word Sexy means;  Marked by or tending to AROUSE SEXUAL DESIRE OR INTEREST, does this suit a child of God and don't say it's a joke, Jesus himself already warned you;

Mt. 12:36-37 

But I say unto you, that every IDLE WORD that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the Day of Judgment. For by thy words thou shalt be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned. (With God there is no such a thing as an idle word. Please take note).

Eccl. 5:6 

Suffer not thy mouth to cause thy flesh to sin; neither say thou before the angel, that it was an error: wherefore should God be angry at thy voice, and destroy the work of thine hands?

At this point, I'll take a break to allow you assimilate and if need be comment on my submission before I proceed with my summary on why most women deny men of sex and the solution.

Thanks for reading!

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